So, we managed to find beds for everyone including giving SIL and baby our bed. H and I slept on the pullout bed in the LR, together and with no qualms from H. He was exhausted, having been up until 3 am and then 1 am the previous two nights. There was no 'hot and steamy' but lots of nice spooning and falling asleep in each other's arms (at least until he stole all the blankets!)
H was also extremely complimentary of the fish tacos I'd made, which were a hit with the rest of the family as well. Tonight is a spicy/sweet pork roast with rosemary potatoes.
It's going quite well so far.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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