How did I get here?

[wanttobebetter]

I agree with everything you are saying. I can tell already she is worried about money and other things that I always took care she is going to have to do. I have to allow her that experience.

I think I have to do like you said...worst case and best case. I think once I get going on my own even if she did come back, she would really have to make some changes...I would not want to put myself and my family through this again.