Yea, Marriage Encounters are for regular couples, to keep things going, etc. Retrouvaille is for couples with very serious trouble, like us. People who are separated, divorcing or even divorced. It may help your W know she is not alone... I know she has you, I mean other people have dealt with horrible problems and survived and thrived.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"