Cupcake's right, Bill, I believe that less than 30% of women experience orgasm during intercourse. It IS logistics, () Okay skip this post if you're sensitive about the sex issue

With most positions, there is jus NO WAY the clitoris receives enough stimulation for orgasm. Indeed it may be that nature designed is in this fashion...the female orgasm to follow...as when a woman has an orgasm AFTER her partner, the contractions cause her cervix to dip into the sperm pool, increasing the odds of conception!!!

I think we get way to caught up in what sex is "supposed" to be like...it's ALL good! Even the odd quickie!

Has your W ever taken matters into her "own hands"? That's the only way I've ever had orgasms during intercourse... very doable!

About your own performance anxiety...that's a libido killer for SURE. CJ has such issues and I'm SURE that has a lot to do with the infrequency of our sex life.

Interestingly, CJ too had trouble responding when I asked about his fantasies...he said he didn't have any! ...or that he just concentrated on the sensations and feelings.

We're all wired differently, Bill. I'm a vivid fantasizer, I'm very visual, you have to learn each other's LL in the bedroom! (Note to self...take your own damned advice!!! )

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