OK - I'm going to email H.

"Hi. What happened with the insurance after? I have not heard anything from them and wondered if you had managed to upgrade my policy, or not? I can't really afford to do it this month now due to all the extra money that I have put in to the joint account but I need to get it sorted, if I am still in my temporary job, next month.

Also, as you spoke of doing some jobs around the house, when would you be available to perhaps mow the lawns? As you know, I am having some trouble with my finger and wrists at the moment otherwise I would do it myself. Perhaps you would let me know so that we could agree on a day?".

This will let H know that I have done as he asked in terms of putting the money in to cover my expenditure and yet it also tells him that he is not off the hook in terms of his responsibilty to care for the home.

Suggestions or comments - answers on a postcard, please!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09