First of all, Thank you Virginia for reinstating me.
I will remember to abide by the rules of this forum.
I posted a link that was not permissable. I wasn't thinking, and put it out there, but it was not an excuse. I knew the rules and did not abide by them.
Don't doubt yourself Fallgirl. Its hard in the heat of the moment to know if what you say is good, but you are a pro in that situation. You have good self awareness, the main thing.