Tonight I got an email from a friend trying to plan a birthday party for me Friday night. I called my W and asked if she could watch the kids Friday night. She seemed annoyed. She said either she would watch them or hire a baby sitter since she already had plans.
Defend her all yall want. But as far as being a mother goes, she has gone down hill to suck mode. Almost anytime she has asked me to watch the kids, I haven't hesitated. But if I ask her which is rare, she always has plans and seems annoyed. How can you as a mother be annoyed at the opportunity to spend an additional evening with your own kids when you only get them every other week?
She is not the mother she used to be. She thinks she is all that and then some for guys to chase after and only has her required times available for her own kids.
Total BS. I will no longer defend her as a loving mother. I'm just irritated at her.
Kevin
Kevin, I agree with you here. After reading all of your posts for many months. Her actions have been selfish at times and not in the best regard for the kids at times. I think that is a common theme for many here on the board.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
