You didn't offend me. I just didn't think it through before I responded.
It was a natural assumption especially from someone with your situation.
Tonight I got an email from a friend trying to plan a birthday party for me Friday night. I called my W and asked if she could watch the kids Friday night. She seemed annoyed. She said either she would watch them or hire a baby sitter since she already had plans.
Defend her all yall want. But as far as being a mother goes, she has gone down hill to suck mode. Almost anytime she has asked me to watch the kids, I haven't hesitated. But if I ask her which is rare, she always has plans and seems annoyed. How can you as a mother be annoyed at the opportunity to spend an additional evening with your own kids when you only get them every other week?
She is not the mother she used to be. She thinks she is all that and then some for guys to chase after and only has her required times available for her own kids.
Total BS. I will no longer defend her as a loving mother. I'm just irritated at her.
Kevin
Last edited by K4D; 09/23/0903:20 AM.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
