Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

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Shell,

Sandi is SPOT ON! Read, re-read, then RE-READ her post.

So let W get her weekend getaway apt. You, of course, will NOT pay a dime toward it. Not to be an a$$, but b/c she is going to be a Big Girl and pay for it herself. You cannot stop her from ... dating ... but let her know that if she does, it's part of the D. Vote with your $. It's EASY to be fabulous when someone else is footing the bill. Reality IS that if/when she leaves you, you will not fund her fun. She might as well taste that now.

Do not call her. Do not text her. Speak when spoken to. Only communicate about the kids. And make yourself scarce. Drinks with buddies. Go to a game. Get out and GAL. Call GIMA. He'll buy drinks Buy clothes. Buy shoes. But colgne. Buy books. Do something very different. Shell shock HER.

Cheers.
Greek