Thanks you guys. I will have to spend my spare time documenting this stuff, plus this past 2 weeks. And kat, I will also write down for the L that he is having them home alone much of the time he technically does have them.
I sent the email and then left to pick up the kids, did the afterschool program and volunteer stuff. We were leaving the church parking lot at 6 and the kids are like oh, there's dad's car which was parked right next to us. I stopped for a second and then realized, I just kept driving out of the parking lot. Unfortunately D9's car door was unlocked so he opened up her door. I had to stop; I'm not going to risk their safety. He then reached in and took the kids and their backpacks out of my car. I decided not to do anything b/c any scene in front of the kids; I mean they already have a crazy dad. The kids were all confused and asking him what was going on, he said it's [b]my[/b] night to have you and gave me a huge smile like "I win."
I was at the theatre tonight and just got home, but I figure I'll spend tomorrow morning writing all this stuff done. If he can get away with this kind of stuff, our legal system is totally crap....
I'm going to pick up the kids tomorrow from school. Hopefully things will go fine. I hope they're ok!