Sandi, thank you for the incredible amount of 2x4s thrown my way :-) keep them comming. I learned this evening (this is not something I had a choice in) that my wife is movign forward in renting a one bedroom apartment for herself to live in on the weekds. She has the funds to pay, and she is doing it. We shall see how that turns out.

It still keeps me here with the boys while i am not traveling for work. And to me, that is a major win!

I gotta go back and read through your posting again when my eyes are more awake. I feel like there is an incrediable amount of information in it form me that will be helpful.

As an aside, earlier in the afternoon, she confessed that this divorce is about her getting a chance to go out a date other people to see what it is like. Does that fit the WAW description?


ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present