Hope your date went well v1olin. I felt odd at first dating when I still considered myself married, but after a while I realized there are levels of dating. As long as I know where I am emotionally, I found I could have a great time dating, but keeping it light. If I meet someone I really click with, THEN I'll need to start seriously thinking about where I want to go with it. Until then, it's just being social, meeting new people, and having fun. Nothing wrong with that at all. In my case, my W has been having a PA with OM, so I have a hard time feeling guilty!