My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

Curious what sign you are RSF...can you divulge such a thing?

Sagittarius, of course ;-)

[RedSoxFan]

Ok the RSF. Here is your new plan of action and it's simple so you should be able to hold it down and work it:
SHUT UP & SIT STILL.
Continue to do things for you.
Every chance you have to get the kids, you take it, no questions asked except what day she'll be picking them up or you'll be dropping them off.
That's it.

Can you do that?

I'm on it. I think I will tackle one thing for me. I'm going to work on moving closer to the kids. At one point I was looking at buying a house or condo so I could be closer, then I put the brakes on because I thought we might reconcile and I didn't want to make a bad move. I think living in their school district would make me feel tons better. I hate being an every other weekend dad, I do a lot with them during the week bu the drive is far and I don't feel comfortable hanging around her/their/our house.

It's funny, she just called because of a scheduling conflict and asked for a hand covering one of the activities. Quick, cordial conversation. It's the littlest thing but I feel so good when we're cordial and working together on stuff like that.

[aliveandkicking]

Excellent!!! You're on track RSF.

[aliveandkicking]

Sagittarius, of course ;-)

Ok. Don't know much about that sign...not that I'm that into astrology but sometimes it's revealing.

[Lotus]

Sagittarius is the hunter. It is a fire sign. Fire goes well with other fire signs and with water signs. What sign is your wife?

[RedSoxFan]

Sagittarius is the hunter. It is a fire sign. Fire goes well with other fire signs and with water signs. What sign is your wife?

Aquarius..on the cusp with Capricorn

[RedSoxFan]

Sagittarius, of course ;-)

Ok. Don't know much about that sign...not that I'm that into astrology but sometimes it's revealing.

I am a Sagittarius through and through

[Lotus]

Air. Not the best match, but you are supposed to look at more than the sun signs, so it doesn't mean anything. Plenty of fire and air signs do well together.

[aliveandkicking]

Well, when I was out with a friend the other night we were sitting with a Sag I thought was kinda cute and my friend warned that Sag's don't aren't relationship oriented...I dunno. She's way more into this stuff than I am. My H is an Aries so it can't be worse than that.

[RedSoxFan]

I have heard such things but I have had no problems in any of my relationships so I doubt it's true.

http://www.astrology-online.com/sagittar.htm

Apparently there are a few vices...hmmmmm

The vices to which Sagittarians are prone are anger they tend to flare up over trifles; impatience - they want to rush every new project through immediately and demand too much of colleagues who cannot work at the pace they require; and scorn of the inadequacies of others while expecting fulsome recognition of their own efforts. They may in one sense deserve recognition, because in completing a major project they will sacrifice their health and family relationships; in their family's eyes they may merit condemnation.

They can be exacting, domineering and inconsiderate in the work place; and boastful, vulgar and extravagant in their private lives. Their restlessness, if excessive, can jeopardize more than their own stability. some Sagittarians risk becoming playboys, wasting their lives away in frivolous pursuits. Others can develop a moralizing, religious fanaticism or else turn into hypocrites, their inner prudishness disguised by an outward appearance of joviality. Another side of the religiosity which is a danger in Sagittarians is superstition.