w8ing I like what the others have posted thanking your X seems ok to do acknoledging his pain as well and getting any extra co-parenting support would definitely be a blessing and if you need time to work out your feelings that is fine, just keep it seperate b/c telling xh what you really feel will not help the R or the co-parenting issues find others to share with and I agree with BT , keep it light and uplifted this could be a turning point remember--many of us will Never get anything remotely close to an apology peace
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