Coach! Thanks for coming by... A couple of giggles...
Originally Posted By: Coach
Watch the self-talk.
Well, when since my H won't really "talk" to me, I have to "talk" to myself! J/K. I see your point.
Also, I like your thoughts regarding realization of being alone. I know that one. I think that's why I fill so much of my time w/"stuff". It's really unnecessary. I started reading a book this weekend. I haven't read for fun in years, and I love it!
And, what did I do when I was down in a tennis match. FOCUS. I can tend to be a bit ADD, so if I'd get out of rhythm, I'd put the blinders on and get to it. (Sometimes I growled, too, but I'm sure that wasn't what you were looking for! LOL)
I'm still a huge work in progress.
Last edited by mindfull; 09/23/0901:39 AM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.