Bewildered

[KiwiMan]

Thanks again Pearl, you have been great.

I keep thinking that we didn't talk enough when she actually broke the news to me on the 12th of Sept, and each time she has talked to me she has been really hungover so her attention span is really bad.

Would it be unacceptable to ask for a talk about the breakup in a calm fashion without all of the emotion coming out?

Just trying to understand and explain all the factors that have made her feel this way?