You know, there have been some moments where I really hope that xW makes good on her threat to marry the OM. Perhaps then she will indeed begin to wear on him and/or he wear on her -- taking me out of her focus as the perceived source for her perpetual angst.
Yea, I've been there as well. It's almost like you want them to get what they want and deal with the consequences. It's the whole 'be careful what you ask for' deal. As if in their current state of mind that they would learn from this. I wouldn't bet on it, though. The only cure for this seems to be time and maybe them seeing you moving on and having a great life.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
