antlers!! You won't believe this, but I had sent you a post before I came here to read this from you. Guess we were both thinking about each other. I had been thinking of asking you to talk to a newcomer for the past few days, so I looked you up today. I know you will be good for this man b/c I read a lot of your posts and you give good advise. I'm so proud of you and consider it a privilege to have you for a friend.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!