Bewildered

[KiwiMan]

Hey Pearl,

Yes, I have said I will try and change before. But when I said I need to go to counseling for the issues she said "Don't be silly you don't need counseling, just relax a bit more"

But after reading the WAW article, its interesting because it is exactly what happened, she bought up the issue and said she thought the behavior would end once we got married, but it didn't, she then let it lie telling me she was still happy with us and everything, when obviously it has brewed to this point of no return in her mind.

I should receive my copy of DR in the next few days. I am overseas, so takes a little while to get here.

So as a typical male, the warning signs were there, but by the time I realised it was make or break... it was too late.