It's good to figure out what precipitated the bomb, but don't put all your focus on your W and what she's going through. Do not ask her to read anything, it won't do any good. You can only control your own actions so put the focus there.

What were her complaints about you in the marriage? Are they valid concerns? What do you need to do to be the best KiwiClint possible?

You and you alone are responsible for your happiness. Start doing GAL activities by yourself and with the kids. Do you have any hobbies that you've neglected lately? Any new ones you want to start? Try something new and different. Keep yourself busy so you don't have time to dwell on things.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 09/22/09 10:44 PM.
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