A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Yep, I hear you on the sticky part.

Maybe next time you can stroke her chin, look into her eyes and ask her if it's really love-making she wants, or does she just need to be held and comforted? If she picks the latter, do that for her (if you can).

In addition to making you look like a great guy, this puts it on her to communicate her needs clearly. If she doesn't, she can't hold it over you later. I'm not sayin' she won't try, mind you, but if she does it won't hold water.