Originally Posted By: Jeff223

BTW, for the others here, Frank is not angry, except maybe with himself. You see deep down he blames himself for all this. The day he was really, really hurt was the day he was forced to file for D. Even now, he never fails to mention that he was the one who filed.


I remember that day, FIB called me and I was trying to find ways that he could 'DB' the situation and save the marriage while she was threatening him with all kinds of nasty stuff.

After all, I had saved mine at the time so I KNEW it could be done. Except that what I didn't know was the true depth of her insanity. That was a long phone call and I remember how even I felt like a failure when I agreed with him that he should file to protect himself.

That was a lifetime ago for all of us.


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