Well, even I was surprised at our current financial sitch and thought I would get more if we split up. I never asked detailed questions about money because I sort of thought of it as our money but sort of thought of it as his money since I don't work. Lesson learned. Now I have access to his bank records and credit card statements and I ask if I have a question.

I'm sure she thought she'd be getting a nice settlement to start her new life. Ah, the rosy picture is a little greyer in reality. You're right, not your problem!

If you love somebody, set them free.
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