I actually do have a candle lit right now. It's cool and rainy and the wet dogs are in the house with me.
Your H has likely started thinking the life he is living with ow is a real life. Didn't he start some D paperwork? maybe he isn't smart enough to know he screwed it up!
I hope you'll be back soon to post an update, it's Tuesday now already.
(((amd)))
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.