Often times it is very difficult to tell the difference between a WAW/MLC. If she is dressing too young or sexy, that can be a symptom of MLC. If she is trying to behave like a teenager, then that's another sign. It seems that everyone I've read about on the board who has been in MLC has also been involved in an A. A WAW does not "have" to do any of these things to want to leave her H.
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does she wonders if I am not feeling love for her?
No
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Does she wonder about my feelings for her?
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Is that the whole intent?
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struggling with the thoughts because it feels "uncomfortable
But it is the right thing to do. If you try to get close to her, she'll pull back. If you will pull back, she'll get closer.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
