I did not read your thread in a few days and look what happened! They must not close threads anymore - over 350 posts!
Hang in Frank. You are getting to the end and you continue to be the calm in the storm. Someone needs to be the Rock (remember our Better Men discussions?) and you are it.
BTW, for the others here, Frank is not angry, except maybe with himself. You see deep down he blames himself for all this. The day he was really, really hurt was the day he was forced to file for D. Even now, he never fails to mention that he was the one who filed. No FH, FIB does not need to detach and see her differently. FIB needs to see her for what she is and accept within himself that he is playing the hand he was dealt the best he can and that he is not totally to blame.
It will soon be over Frank and then the hard stuff comes. Time away from the kids. Money issues. Her anger will grow even worse.
So hang in. Continue to come here to vent. Still lots of good support here. I notice frank_d is still around
