Bewildered

[KiwiMan]

Thanks for that Wantto

I have been reading these posts and have had some comfort that I am not alone on this stuff.

Regarding the possiblity of cheating, Should i confront her and say something along the lines of -

"I need to know the truth, is there another guy in your life? Because if you are not telling me and I find out later on, then it will really affect our relationship going forward as far as the kids and everything else goes"

She has already sworn black and blue to me on a number of occasions that there is no other guy and she doesn't want another relationship. But after what you guys have said and the fact she has broken it off without the hope of seeking external help, I can't understand that she is chucking all of this away to be alone....