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Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 breakaway #1842643 09/22/09 08:31 PM
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OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	Nice Breakaway...Now that idea I may implement! Tristan - You have given me some very nice ideas as well... I live by the beach and spend a great deal of time there at night however in Maui it is a different story so I will be walking... The active volcano is on the Big Island and I am hoping to take an island hop over there to see it... I want to just find "me" again... I am hoping to walk away from there with some answers for myself and my life... I will visit the local market and find a great momento to bring home with me Since my time will be limited I am hoping to get by on as little sleep as possible... Who knows where the winds will take me, all I know is it won't be here and I will have some much needed space even if it is for a short time May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Serenity13 #1842681 09/22/09 08:59 PM
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mlj Member M Joined: Jan 2009 Posts: 305	I love the sending him a postcard idea! MJ

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 mlj #1842692 09/22/09 09:06 PM
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breakaway Member B Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 1,464	Originally Posted By: mlj I love the sending him a postcard idea! MJ I am so good at other people's relationships!! lol Me-42,H-41,M-14 S-12,9 Previous thread

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 breakaway #1842694 09/22/09 09:07 PM
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tristan Member T Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 719	Originally Posted By: breakaway I am so good at other people's relationships!! lol Can you please fix mine? Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09 My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 tristan #1842712 09/22/09 09:21 PM
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breakaway Member B Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 1,464	Originally Posted By: tristan Originally Posted By: breakaway I am so good at other people's relationships!! lol Can you please fix mine? well I'm trying...;) I just need someone to fix mine. although it's getting better and I have been here for...drum roll please...11 months. egads. Me-42,H-41,M-14 S-12,9 Previous thread

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 breakaway #1842768 09/22/09 10:31 PM
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OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	Hats off to you Break for hanging in for the long haul (((Hugs))) I will use the postcard because it is a complete change from what I would normally do, so I thank you for that advice. That will probably chap his ass but oh well May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 breakaway #1842874 09/23/09 01:50 AM
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tristan Member T Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 719	Originally Posted By: breakaway Originally Posted By: tristan Originally Posted By: breakaway I am so good at other people's relationships!! lol Can you please fix mine? well I'm trying...;) Yes. But between you and Robx, I sometimes think I'm just being drawn and quartered One part of me wants to go one way, the other part wants to go in the exact opposite direction. Sorry for the hijack Serenity. Last edited by tristan; 09/23/09 01:56 AM. Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09 My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 tristan #1842976 09/23/09 03:43 AM
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OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	No problem at all Tristan - I understand how you feel so hijack away May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Serenity13 #1843996 09/24/09 02:17 PM
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OP Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	Looking for some advice today - It has been almost 11 weeks (tomorrow actually) since he walked out the door... He hasn't seen our youngest son at all and has seen our oldest one 4 times... He doesn't call to speak to them or see how they are doing on a regular basis (about once a week) He has now gone 12 days without speaking to me - Not a word and I am not sure why (Guilt maybe?)... I awoke this morning wondering why I am still standing for this? Is my marriage worth saving anymore? And then felt no guilt for feeling this way... I told someone on the board earlier - The more I GAL, the more I am sure I don't want that one back...Is this normal? Thanks in advance for any advice May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: Not Me...Ever part 2 Serenity13 #1844011 09/24/09 02:37 PM
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tristan Member T Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 719	Originally Posted By: Serenity13 I told someone on the board earlier - The more I GAL, the more I am sure I don't want that one back...Is this normal? Obviously, you don't want the husband that walked out on you back. That is normal. However, if your husband came back remorseful and promising to change, you may give it a go. But don't concern yourself with that now. Continue to GAL. Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09 My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1

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