NC with wife for one week

[Ready2Change]

I agree with everything he said, except that there is not much time left. I believe you have plenty of time (IE patience). What do you think?

I feel that "WE" need to "Set our spouses free" and work on our own issues. Our spouses "held up a mirror" and let us know what we need to change.

Text her again- "I would like to discuss how we divide our things. I would like to do this tonight while I walk the dogs. If that does not work for you, when would be a good time for you?"

This shows you are supporting her decision without trying to control her. You will be able to listen and validate her during the discussion. You will not have to agree to anything tonight, but have the opportunity to validate her.