True, I'm sorry that your xh has written to you about his latest woman. He really does see you as a "pal". Once the dust settles, many of them appear to want to be friends and want to share w/us what is going on in their lives. Not once, do they stop and consider what they've done to us and that we should be more than willing to shove all of the pain and suffering under the carpet. Not once do they actually take the time to fully understand what they've done. Why? Because much of what they've said and done was done under the depression fog and they've forgotten it. Some do remember bits and pieces, but it really very sad and frustrating when I read of such things for I've been on the receiving end of some of the things you have posted that your xh has shared w/you.
True, you have a the freedom to delete the email if you do not wish to read it. You have the right to tell him that you do not wish to hear about his latest conquest. True, you cannot truly move on w/him sharing such information w/you. The scar is so very raw and a friend would not do this to you. A friend would be more considerate of your feelings. Hugs to you, my dear friend.
I am anxious to hear about the new guy. I do hope he's fun and someone you can relate to. Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
