It is easier for them to reinforce what they are thinking when they dig up the old stuff. Thinking may be the wrong word, maybe feeling is the right one. Not a lot of thinking going on.
Everyone says to be patient....I guess when you have no other option it makes it easier.
M 33, W 30, SD 10, D 5, S 4
Made it through the WAW, living happily together now. And I am much wiser for it!
