Ya, the holiday issue has been bothering me since I looked at the schedule. I haven't said anything to W about it. She may be planning on traveling for Christmas with them. I'm not sure. I think she mentioned something about it.
Kevin
okay...you obsess about all the things she says and does...but you can't remember what she said about CHRISTMAS and traveling with the kids? Isn't that kind of...important?
what is going on with you that you don't know what your holiday schedule is? You said you somehow know it was planned, but you're not sure? Do you listen to her?
This really confuses me. And no, I don't think you draw up a schedule and give it to her, just like she shouldn't do that to you. You suggest and you talk about it, and come to an agreement. You've made it sound like this might have been discussed with her...but you can't remember. Is that what you're saying? Because if you suddenly act like you have a different plan than one you might have ACTUALLY agreed to...well that's going to seem weird. Did you agree to this at some point?
