hi, a word of caution about "family" time... it might just send kids the wrong message, they might think you guys are getting back together (even after we told kids we were D'ing and it was all over, months later my son still asked his dad when was he moving back in.
Kids hold on to the hope things will work out, and being together might put more hope in their hearts. My kids are about the same age as yours, so I can see how the oldest one might be pretty sure you guys wont be divorcing and the little one had no good clue what's going on.
Don't go by your emotions, dont' act upon them... you see where most WAS went when going by their gut feeling. Take care))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
