Wow!! Thanks to everyone for the welcome and responses! I'm overwhelmed!
Things are going well in our house; had a joint C session yesterday, seems like W is feeling really overwhelmed with everything, was sick to her stomach yesterday and has said we need to stop talking about things for awhile. A LOT of things to process. She's backed off a little with the physical affetion, kissing and such, but none of this seems like signs that she's changing her mind.
She DID go and arrange for me to have a massage - that's really nice, eh? Funny, I had also gotten her a gift certificate for a spa treatment. Things are good, but a lot of evidence that things are going to be slow going for awhile, which I'm glad for. Takes the pressure off a bit. She's leaving tomorrow for a long weekend at scrapbook camp, which I think will be good for both of us.
Indidentally, W says to tell all my BB friends hello for her!
I've got my own independent C appointment today. Funny how much I look forward to these - I like seeking solutions for progress.
KML - thanks for the welcome! I do have 5LL, had begun to read it a few weeks ago, but I need to really get into it. I've got an "assingment" from the C as well that I need to get through first, then 5LL is next on my list. I've shown it to W as well, and she's shown mild interest in reading it, but she's got a lot to work on as well. Anyway, it's on my priority list.
I live just east of Sacramento in the foothills. My sister is close to your area, in a town called Pine Valley (east of El Cajon).
So - party, eh? You know, I can drink alcohol with my anti-Ds... ah, what the heck. Wine, was it? Opening up a bottle of off-dry Johannesburg Riesling from my favorite Napa winery taking a sip... ahhh.h... gf.gioj jopvjwjju9-3ju - ACK - 91gj]0-o2432402mv,.zzzzZZZZZZZzzzzzzz zzzzzzZZZZZZZzzzzzz
*Snort* - ah, what happened? See, I told you they didn't mix! (wiping drool from my face)
Pam - you know, my W has thought about posting herself. She's felt very alone with the decisions she's been making, and has wanted something like this BB. SHe hasn't done in, but I hope that David does think about it. I love how much you guys are communicating.
Optimist, Karen, Shinybear, Kitti, thanks for all the kind words and great feedback! I've got to get to a meeting now, will chat with y'all later -
