I hope you noticed then that the question about Retrouvaille was to satisfy your own needs to see the kids. And not really about you reconciling with your W.
It was a combination of both.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...