I setup a hair appointment at a salon. Man, that just sounds weird, but I want to do something for me, and get a pro to look at this mop, and see what they can do about it!
I think like SP, I'll call my W, WAW now, to frame her in my mind as that, and not my 'W' Per se. Not sure if that minor distinction will help me detach along the way.
Small negatives: WAW is on her way to the Co-parenting class for the final session tonight, that's mandated by divorce law here.
I setup our next mediation appointment for Oct 1st...
Small positives: WAW cried in front of me again after discussing taking SS18 to florida in October for the beginning of his school. It's tough for me to watch that, I want to give her a hug, but know she doesn't want that from me. I just patted her on the shoulder, and said I understand your sad. Made her laugh, as SS18 has a special ring tone for his Mom, and I told her she can make it ring every 10 minutes while he's away. She chuckled at that
WAW cooked dinner while I am working from home, and when it was ready actually called me down to eat with the family. Joked around a little with them all, had a decent meal, and now finishing up some work.
Taking d8 grocery shopping tonight, we seem to have fun doing that together, I try and send her on little 'missions' to get stuff and bring back to the cart, she has fun doing that.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
