Well, please don't take that as me excusing her. I didn't mean that. I'm sure she has issues. I did. (And FWIW, my OM's kids were nearly grown, blah blah, they wanted to live with him and get away from her (lie)...then he offered to put them in boarding school so he could be with me, and I was like...whaaaat? no way.) I hate talking about it, it makes me sick.
Anyway, you sound pretty grounded. If he ends up with her, feel sure it won't last.
(And FWIW, my OM's kids were nearly grown, blah blah, they wanted to live with him and get away from her (lie)...then he offered to put them in boarding school so he could be with me, and I was like...whaaaat? no way.) I hate talking about it, it makes me sick.