That's why you should have a co-parenting/custody order in place. You need to stop wasting your energy thinking about ways to get her to be your W again and start thinking about being civil co-parents. I have a rotating Holiday schedule w my X. I have her for Thanksgiving this year and she has her for Xmas. If were in town then we try to share the Holiday. But, you are better off getting this written up by an attorney or she will just continue to manipulate you.
