I hope you noticed then that the question about Retrouvaille was to satisfy your own needs to see the kids. And not really about you reconciling with your W. Come up with an arrangement for the holidays and give it to her.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER