I want my family back!

[Calliope]

Thanks Breakaway, I need to copy your first paragraph and remind myself of it every day.

And you are absolutely right about the OW. I do blame my H more. He was telling her every detail about our M, how miserable he was. Of course he said he also told her the good things about me, and that is one of the reasons why she gets jealous and thinks he's coming back. Who knows how much of that is true..

What I do know, is that she knew that he was married with small children. And I can easily sit here on the other side of the fence and say that I would never do what she did. Nor would I expose my kids to a new relationship like she is. But, regardless of what kind of person she is, I should not be focusing on her. HE is the problem