So it was the holiday issue that triggered you.

For those you should tell W you want joint time with the girls. Like maybe for Thanksgiving, you have them during lunch and she has them during dinner.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER