Who is this person?

[Day by Day]

I was thinking of not being there on Wed. and going out with a girlfriend for drinks. He will be picking up the kids from a class and bringing them to the house. I answered his email telling him how the kids feel better with him spending time with him in the house and that they love him and miss him. And that it's been good for them to see him more lately. His reply was vague IMO... he confirmed the time and said that "it works out very well for us all". Don't know if that's sarcasm or nice, that's the prob with email. I really don't know how to read any signals.

You are right, let the dust settle... *thank you* I need to remember that. Since I can't interpret his signals well, I'll just keep being polite, friendly and no R talks.

New things? I think I need to get back to that again. I did change a lot of things, my hair color somewhat, got eyeglasses, new clothes, going back to school, rearranged the furniture in the house, started running, and decorating the house more.

I am trying to have more fun now. The crippling pain of him leaving is gone and I can be smarter about dealing with this and DBing. I'm trying to be happier now. "Fake it till you make it."

I'm so grateful for the advice here. I do understand the principles and I'm trying to apply it to my situation.