Kevin, Maybe she will be reasonable. maybe she will be willing for you to have split days on some of the Holidays. I would send a short email asking and stating if would be nice but your not going to push it. Just my thoughts.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
