Good ideas! Thanks! Not feeling very lighthearted but will keep trying to act "as if"..When we do go out alone, we do have a good time.. I do think H is still getting over the OW dumping him-he's still somewhat obsessed over why she did, how she "changed"-he thought she was his soulmate....

I'm playing it cool today-no calls to H..will see how tonight goes. Will act 'as if" things are fine. :-)


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.