DO NOT, I WILL REPEAT, DO NOT send that message.

DO NOT ask R status.

She DOES NOT CARE about your opinion right now.

You are trying to force her to give you the answers you want to hear.

You have to parent the way you parent. If that means-I will take the kids on Saturday, and you have them on Sunday, then THAT is the way it is. THEY have no choice until they reach 18.

I am flabbergasted over all of this.

Last edited by cat04; 09/22/09 08:32 PM.

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