Dia you have to deal with the ML aspect in which ever way you see fit hun! Having been there and got the tshirt so to speak at the weekend, I can only say that is was alright because it was what both of us wanted, it all started off with lots of kissing, probably more than would have been the norm! It was muted that was this the right direction to go in and my only objection was that it wasnt a "mans needs" the most hurtful thing H has ever said to me on our last ML moment before he left, his reply was "not mans needs but ML" only then was it acceptable. I used to say I'd never accept used goods, one thing dear to me is the fact that we have only ever been each others partners, but then it occurred to me that if that was the case it would be highly unlikely I'd even know! I totally understand you having boundaries and that H cant cross them until you feel happy about it, I cant say I wouldnt do what happened again last weekend but there is definitely not going to be any cake eating!
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