I'm realizing that I'm not responding fast enough and missing posts!
Thanks Stronger.. I have to say that I am thrilled to have you all helping.. I've been reading your posts for months
I will take these recents actions with a grain of salt, and keep the big picture in mind.
And you are right, he probably still isnt being truthful to OW, although I do have a feeling they are arguing quite a bit lately (when they have problems, I see long phone calls on his cell records... there was a huge one yesterday)
Me: 36 H: 33 S1: 4 S2: 2 Together: 13 years Married: 7 years Bomb: May 09 Found out about affair: June 09 Moved out: June 09 He Filed: July 09 Moved in with OW: July 09