Now don't everyone freak out. I am still thinking of a way to ask my beloved darling to go to Retrouvaille with me next month.
Any suggestions on how to put it to her so she might consider it?
Kevin
Dear, sweet Kevin,
And I am saying this with the kindest voice possible. THIS is exactly why you need counseling. I admit, I have gone to counseling myself nothing wrong with it. It's almost as if you are a person who is only their hands over their ears , yelling lalalala- I can't hear it so it must not be true. She does not want to be with you at this time. Maybe in the future but not know.
But, we all know her answer will be no. And that this behavior, in my mind, is pursuing.
And to call her "sweet darling"? Just, I don't know how to word it, just not right in some way.... (considering the situation)
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)