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Re: Well this email came from no where.. Grace_O #1842568 09/22/09 07:53 PM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375 C cat04 Member
cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	Jack at a loss for words. Now I've seen everything. Yea, I agree with what everyone else said. We know you didn't want this to happen. None of us wanted this to happen. But we pick up our pieces and go on. You will too. "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

Re: Well this email came from no where.. cat04 #1842578 09/22/09 07:57 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	It happens it is from a very short list of posters. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: Well this email came from no where.. Grace_O #1842580 09/22/09 07:58 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest A are you kidding OP Member
OP are you kidding Member A Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest	Do i ask her to clarify, are we through as in through as a family ever, what is an IMO? And how can I be a parent if the kids are going to dictate when I am allowed to see them?

Re: Well this email came from no where.. are you kidding #1842587 09/22/09 08:00 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Quote: Do i ask her to clarify, are we through as in through as a family ever, SMACK! IMO = In My Opinion Quote: And how can I be a parent if the kids are going to dictate when I am allowed to see them? Great f-ing question... Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: Well this email came from no where.. cat04 #1842590 09/22/09 08:01 PM
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Mach1 Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 4,711 Likes: 255	Holy crap, I can't believe what I am reading here.... Are you that unsure of everything ? Look, kids are gonna be kids, you have three of them right now... Pull your skirt up and be a F-ing Father to the two that need you. This shouldn't be hard man.... What kind of example is your indecision showing them ? Not meaning to blast you, but this is hard to read AYK.... We're all here to help you understand MLC and help you through a difficult time in your life. Not to be parents to your children...

this is my thought of a response Grace_O #1842617 09/22/09 08:16 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest A are you kidding OP Member
OP are you kidding Member A Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest	Your dad is trying to reach you�I gave him your cell number. In my opinion we are making a mistake with the kids. In my opinion the kids shouldn�t be allowed to decide when they are going to be with either one of us. In my opinion that is not putting them first, we are their parents,friends, and who they go to for support. In my opinion we are reaching a point that is not leaving very many do overs. Thoughts please

Re: this is my thought of a response are you kidding #1842627 09/22/09 08:23 PM
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Mach1 Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 4,711 Likes: 255	You sure you want my thoughts ? Much like Jack in a prom dress ...it aint gonna be pretty....

Re: this is my thought of a response Mach1 #1842630 09/22/09 08:24 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest A are you kidding OP Member
OP are you kidding Member A Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest	yes i want your thoughts before I go do something really bad for my kids and go file for a divorce tomorrow morning.

Re: this is my thought of a response are you kidding #1842642 09/22/09 08:30 PM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375 C cat04 Member
cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	DO NOT, I WILL REPEAT, DO NOT send that message. DO NOT ask R status. She DOES NOT CARE about your opinion right now. You are trying to force her to give you the answers you want to hear. You have to parent the way you parent. If that means-I will take the kids on Saturday, and you have them on Sunday, then THAT is the way it is. THEY have no choice until they reach 18. I am flabbergasted over all of this. Last edited by cat04; 09/22/09 08:32 PM. "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

Re: this is my thought of a response cat04 #1842652 09/22/09 08:37 PM
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cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	Do you really want to try to save your marriage or do you just want to be right? "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

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