Welcome, I as a woman I can say it's well within realm of belief that your wife is not with an Other man yet. By the time a woman finally gives up on a relationship she might really be unhappy with all men. If this is the case then there could be a ray of hope to win her back if you face your issues/your part in why she left. I think for being a new guy here you sound like you are headed in the best possible direction to do so! Limited, light, pleasant contact is the best way to treat her while you wait for Divorce Remedy!

Good Luck!